A Private 3-Day Weekend Experience

Embodied Eros
Immersion

For men ready to feel more present, more confident,
and more alive in intimacy.

3 DaysPrivate Weekend
1:1 FormatFully Personalized
$4,997Investment
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If This Feels Familiar

More thinking
about it is not
the answer.

You may already understand yourself pretty well. You know the language of intimacy, desire, nervous system work, communication. And still — when intimacy becomes real, something in you tightens.

You go into your head. You lose the thread of what you want. You freeze, perform, disconnect, or default to what feels safest. You stay composed on the outside, but inside, you are not fully there.

You are not broken. These patterns are intelligent adaptations — ways your body learned to protect you when closeness felt risky. They can be understood, worked with, and softened.

You may be someone who…

  • Overthinks during sex, dating, or emotionally vulnerable moments
  • Feels numb, blank, or disconnected when things get intimate
  • Struggles to identify what you really want in the moment
  • Carries shame around desire, need, tenderness, or being fully seen
  • Has learned to perform confidence while feeling uncertain underneath
  • Finds it easier to give than to receive
  • Knows how to "function" in intimacy, but wants to feel more alive in it

Why a 3-Day Format

Deeper than a session.
Faster than weekly coaching.

Not everyone wants — or needs — a 12-week commitment. Some men want a focused, private, accelerated experience. A dedicated container where they can step out of everyday life and finally give this part of themselves real attention.

The Framework

The EROS Method™

Embodied Eros Immersion is built around my signature four-part framework. This is how erotic confidence becomes real — not as a performance, but as a lived experience in your body.

E
Embody

Come back into your body. Learn to recognize sensation, tension, arousal, shutdown, desire, and aliveness — so you can stop living only from the neck up.

R
Regulate

Build the capacity to stay present with intimacy, vulnerability, shame, pleasure, and erotic charge without disappearing, performing, or becoming overwhelmed.

O
Own

Get honest about what you want. Claim your desire, your boundaries, your needs, and your truth with greater clarity and self-trust.

S
Share

Practice expressing yourself more honestly in intimacy — through communication, asking, receiving, and allowing yourself to be more fully seen.

The Shift

What this experience is
designed to help you shift.

Before the Immersion

  • ◦ Disconnected from your body and erotic self
  • ◦ Unsure what you actually want in the moment
  • ◦ Caught between longing and self-protection
  • ◦ Shame around your needs, desires, or tenderness
  • ◦ Hesitant to ask for what you want
  • ◦ Braced around pleasure, vulnerability, or being seen
  • ◦ Tired of repeating the same intimacy patterns

After the Immersion

  • ✦ Greater connection to your body and erotic self
  • ✦ Clearer sense of desire, boundaries, and truth
  • ✦ Tools for staying present in intimate moments
  • ✦ Less shame, less self-abandonment
  • ✦ Confidence in asking, receiving, expressing
  • ✦ Honest, grounded relationship with intimacy
  • ✦ A plan for continuing the work in real life

Everything You Receive

What's Included

01

Private Pre-Immersion Consultation

A 60-minute Zoom session before the weekend to clarify your goals, patterns, boundaries, desires, and what support would actually feel useful.

02

Private 3-Day Weekend Immersion

A focused, high-touch 1:1 experience designed around your erotic confidence, embodiment, nervous system, intimacy patterns, and desire.

03

Embodied Eros Immersion Workbook

A guided workbook with reflection prompts, desire mapping, nervous system awareness exercises, body-based practices, and integration pages.

04

Erotic Confidence Practices Library

Practical tools for grounding, body awareness, desire attunement, clean asking, setting boundaries, and ongoing integration.

05

Your Personalized Erotic Confidence Blueprint

A customized roadmap based on your top intimacy blocks, desires, patterns, and growth edges — with specific practices and next steps.

06

Session Notes & Integration Summary

A written summary after the weekend so you have clear takeaways, practices, and language to return to as you integrate the work.

07

30-Day Integration Session

A 60-minute follow-up session within 30 days to help you process what shifted and apply the work in real life.

Added Value

The Bonuses

Erotic Confidence Audit

A private assessment to identify where you are overthinking, freezing, pleasing, performing, disconnecting, or struggling to express desire.

Desire, Boundaries & Clean Asking Guide

A practical guide to help you communicate more honestly about what you want, what you don't want, and what you're curious about.

Embodied Eros Audio Practices

Short guided practices for grounding, presence, body awareness, desire attunement, and pre-intimacy nervous system regulation.

Partner Conversation Toolkit

Prompts and check-in frameworks for more honest, connected, and erotic conversations with a partner or future intimate connection.

The Experience

The Weekend Arc

Each phase builds on the one before it. We don't rush your body into openness before it feels grounded enough to be honest.

Day One

Embody

We begin by slowing down and listening to your body. You'll start noticing where you tighten, go numb, overthink, perform, or disconnect in intimacy — not to judge those patterns, but to understand what your body has been trying to protect.

Day Two

Regulate + Own

We work with your nervous system so you can stay more present when desire, vulnerability, shame, or uncertainty shows up. From there, we clarify what you actually want, what you don't want, and where you may have been outsourcing your desire to someone else's approval.

Day Three

Share

We practice bringing your truth into connection. You'll work with clean asks, boundaries, consent, and honest expression — then gather everything into your personalized Erotic Confidence Blueprint so you leave with language, practices, and next steps you can actually use.

Honest Criteria

Is this the right
fit for you?

This Is for You If…

  • ✦You want deep support, but don't want to commit to 12 weeks right now
  • ✦You know that talking alone isn't enough
  • ✦You're ready for a concentrated, body-based experience
  • ✦You value privacy, discretion, and personalized attention
  • ✦You're willing to be honest with yourself
  • ✦You're ready to move beyond insight and into embodiment

This Is Not…

  • –A therapy substitute or clinical mental health service
  • –A sex performance training or technique course
  • –About becoming more polished, detached, or impressive
  • –For someone looking for a quick fix without real self-examination

This is a guided immersive coaching experience for men who are ready for honest, embodied work.

Trevor James
Trevor James
Los Angeles

Your Guide

Why Work
With Me

My work sits at the intersection of touch, intimacy, embodiment, emotional truth, and erotic self-awareness. I support men who are tired of feeling disconnected from themselves and others — men who long for more intimacy but don't always know how to stay present enough to receive it, create it, or ask for it.

What I offer is warm, grounded, consent-forward, and deeply human.

There is room here for your tenderness, your uncertainty, your desire, your awkwardness, your courage, and your truth. You don't have to arrive polished. You don't have to already know exactly what you want. You don't have to perform healing to do this work.

You just have to be willing to show up honestly.

"Erotic confidence is not about being impressive. It is about being real enough to stay in the room."

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The Investment

Ready when you are.

$4,997

Embodied Eros Immersion

Includes pre-immersion consultation, the full 3-day private weekend experience, customized workbook & materials, practices library, your personalized blueprint, session notes, and a 30-day integration follow-up session.

Payment plan available — ask during your consultation.

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An Alternative Path

Prefer a slower,
more gradual journey?

If you know you want this work, but would rather move through it over time — with weekly support, integration between sessions, and a longer container — the Embodied Eros Intensive is a 12-week coaching experience that may be a better fit.

Both paths lead to the same place. It's about which format matches how you're ready to show up right now.

Explore the 12-Week Intensive
Intimate connection

Common Questions

Frequently Asked
Questions

Not at all. This work is just as valuable for single men, men who are dating, men in relationships, and men who are reconnecting with themselves after a long period of disconnection. The immersion is fundamentally about your relationship with yourself.
No. Some men come in with a very clear issue. Others simply know they are tired of feeling disconnected, performative, shut down, or uncertain in intimacy. That is enough. We'll clarify goals together in your pre-immersion consultation.
That is very normal. Most men who are drawn to this work feel some mix of curiosity, fear, hope, desire, and uncertainty. We work with that honestly and at a pace that supports trust and real safety. Nervousness often means you're taking this seriously — which is exactly right.
Not exactly — it's a different format for a different kind of readiness. The immersion is for men who want a concentrated private experience without committing to a longer weekly container. Both paths use the same EROS Method™ and can produce meaningful shifts; the right choice depends on what suits you.
You'll leave with a personalized integration plan, your Erotic Confidence Blueprint, and a 30-day follow-up session. The goal is that you don't walk away with just insight — you leave with language, practices, and support to help you apply the work in real life.

The Invitation

Stop performing.
Start listening to your body.

You may not need more advice. You may need a space where you can stop performing, stop rushing, stop managing how you are perceived — and actually listen to what your body, your desire, and your deeper truth have been trying to say. That is what Embodied Eros Immersion offers.

A private, focused, deeply supportive space to come back to yourself — and begin relating to intimacy with more presence, more honesty, and more confidence.

If that is what you're ready for, I invite you to begin.

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